Interpretation Of Etiquette Connotation And Matters Needing Attention

Personal etiquette is the expression of mutual respect and friendship between members of a society. This is also a virtue. It is a manifestation of a person's public moral accomplishment in social activities. It is well known that "acting in the heart and saying things for the heart" is not only based on the socialist morality, but based on personal accomplishment and cultural accomplishment, but only in the form of efforts. It is bound to backfire. Because it can not show the respect for others in essence and friendly feelings, so it can not really impress each other, infect each other, enhance mutual friendship and harmonizing relations. The personal etiquette advocated by us today is a standard of civilized conduct, and its specific provisions in personal conduct are all without the characteristics of noble and sincere socialist spiritual civilization.

Or the false and civilized behavior of the two faces of a person's predecessor is a matter of "gold and jade", and people will sneer at it. "Honesty is in the middle, but outside the form". Only when the heart is possessed of noble moral sentiment can it be elegant and elegant. Only moral, cultivated, educated and knowledgeable people can "know the book and respect the ceremony", so that we can be strict with ourselves, lenient towards others, conscientiously act according to the social morality, and then we can know how to respect others, that is, to respect ourselves and to observe and maintain social ethics, that is, create one for ourselves.

The truth of etiquette and a relaxed and happy living environment can truly become a socialist civilized person who knows the difference between ritual and impoliteness.

For individuals,

是文明行为的道德规范与标准，就国家而论，个人礼仪乃属一种社会文化，它是构成社会主义精神文明的基本要素，也是一个国家文化与传统的象征，更是一国治国教民的经典.素有“礼仪之邦”美誉的中国，从古至今一直就十分崇尚“礼”，也极为重视礼仪教化.历代君主、诸路圣贤均把礼仪视作是一切的准绳，认为一切应以礼为治，以礼为教.关于个人礼仪与社会文明的问题，我们的先人也有过不少的论述.如《论语·为政》中说：“道之以政，齐王以刑，民免而无耻;道之以德，齐王以礼，有耻且格.”其大意为：用政权推行一种“道”，并用刑律惩处违“道”者，老百姓想的是如何逃避惩处而不看行为的对错和荣辱，用德来推行“道”，以礼教化人民，老百姓懂得对错、荣辱，并会自觉地遵守之.这十分清楚地说明了在古代，人们对个人礼仪所产生的社会效应就有了

A more profound understanding of the "etiquette and humiliation" and "four dimensions" in the son of heaven, more clearly and directly regard the "rite" as the head of the four spiritual elements of the country, and its prominent social role. Countless facts have proved that personal etiquette plays a positive role in purifying and beautifying a society. A moral force with strong binding force formed by personal etiquette has enabled every member of society to consciously adjust his behavior according to the requirements of social civilization, absolve his bad habits, and finally incorporate his words and deeds into the track of meeting the requirements of the times in order to conform to the trend of social development.

It can be seen that personal etiquette is not only a yardstick for measuring the moral standard of a person, but also an important symbol for measuring the degree of civilization of a society or a country.