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Ten Great Wisdom In Workplace Success

2011/4/6 13:12:00 65

Workplace Intelligence Colleagues

It is not enough for a professional to be able to work well in the workplace, depending solely on the quality of his personal image and his personal achievements. While paying attention to both internal and external needs, we should also be good at managing interpersonal relationships, paying attention to people's word of mouth, and ensuring that we can do well in communicating with colleagues.


1. Integrate into your colleagues' hobbies.


Accepting and understanding some of your colleagues' interests and hobbies, finding common topics from them, and exchanging them into groups as soon as possible, this will help greatly improve work friendships.


2, do not arbitrarily reveal personal Privacy


The personal secrets of a colleague are, of course, some hidden things that are hidden or not known to others. If a colleague can tell you his privacy information, it can only show that your colleagues are reliable enough for you, and your friendship must exceed others. If at the same time you hear your personal secrets exposed in someone's mouth, don't say, she must think you betrayed her. The betrayed coworkers will surely curse you in the heart, and regret for the friendship and trust you have paid before. Therefore, do not arbitrarily disclose personal privacy and consolidate the basic requirements of professional friendship. If this is not done well, I am afraid no colleague will dare to confide in you.


3, don't let love get in the way.


Act as Occupation It is better for people to deal with their own emotional lives alone. Even before their love is mature, even the closest friends should not drag together to go on a date. Otherwise, love will become a stumbling block to friendship.


4, small talk should be kept at a distance.


It is a normal thing for colleagues to chat with each other while they are away from office. Some of them mostly show their knowledge in front of their colleagues. In fact, those who pretended to know everything are only skin and fur. If you break the sand nest and ask questions, the other party will soon show up. This will embarrass colleagues who like God, and believe that colleagues will avoid you consciously or unintentionally when chatting again. Therefore, when chatting, you don't need to understand everything, so that your colleagues will be happy to accept you.


5, stay away from gossip.


Gossip is a "soft knife" in the workplace. It is very destructive and destructive. This kind of injury can directly affect the human mind, and it will make the injured person very tired. Gossiping will make other colleagues on the unit feel less afraid of you. If this is the case, I believe you will not be able to enjoy your life in this unit, because no colleague has taken you seriously.


6, low-key handling of internal disputes


In the process of working time, there is something small with colleagues. contradiction That's quite normal; however, in dealing with these contradictions, we should pay attention to methods and try to make the contradictions between you open to the public. Office space is also a public place. Although there are some minor frictions between colleagues, there must be rational handling of friction events. Don't show your arrogant appearance. You must make a break with your colleagues. To put it another way, even if you are reasonable, your colleagues will be very respectful to you if you have to forgive yourself, and feel that you are a man who does not give room to colleagues and does not give others face. He will always be on guard against you in the future, so that you may lose the support of a large number of colleagues. Besides, your colleagues will hate you and your career will be more than an enemy.


7, do not lend money freely.


Do not hesitate to borrow money from colleagues. If you borrow money, you must remember to return it in time. Don't let your colleagues lose confidence in you because of their personal economic negligence and alienate you.


8, complain and keep away from your mouth.


Many people are always angry and complaining in whatever circumstances they are working. They always pour bitter water on everyone. Maybe you think of complaining and bitter water as a way of communicating sincerely with their colleagues, but excessive complaints and grumbling will make colleagues feel that you are so dissatisfied with your current job, why don't you job hopping and find another job?


9, be proud when you are proud.


When you are complacent, don't publicize it, so as not to invite some people's jealousy, and cause unnecessary trouble; when frustrated, you can't complain about your boss in public, or even involve other colleagues. This will not only cause your boss's boredom, but also arouse your colleagues' resentment. Therefore, no matter when you are complacent or frustrated, don't overdo it. Otherwise, you can only bring obstacles to your work friendship.


10, take good care of your boss while you please your colleagues.


"Water can carry a boat can also overturn". It is very important to please the boss. It is very important to curry favor with your colleagues. If you ignore your colleagues, you will cause your colleagues to repel and rebel, which is not conducive to the smooth progress of your work.


Workplace friendships, a factor that is easily overlooked, can give you a fulcrum at a critical time. Here are some of the key points to stabilize the fulcrum, and I believe these contents will make your relationship more successful.


 

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